Decolonial designer and researcher; Liberatory futures coach; Change alchemist and founder of Pause and Effect.
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Reciprocity as relational responsibility
When we understand ourselves as part of a web of relations, reciprocity becomes a way of life, not a checklist. It becomes less about immediate repayment, but about how we live in right relation across time, space, and power.
June 3, 2025
